You are Number One…

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I will be blunt this journey is not for the faint hearted…

I have been on this journey for some time, maybe not as long as some but longer than others and there is still a common factor that is being missed in all that we do – making sure you as a Carer is the Number One person on this journey… Don’t get me wrong I understand and know first hand that our children can be demanding. I know they will take us beyond our limits some days and they will wear us very thin, which is why nurturing you is such a crucial element on this journey.

Here we are with nearly nine months of the year gone and I would be keen to know how many of you have made you the priority in this time, as its a common trait that many of the goals that are set in our life are all about the success we wish to achieve with our children… What about you and your needs ? Isn’t it time you became the key player in this journey ? Isn’t time you were rewarded for all that you do without hesitation ? My answer is YES, as you are the most important person on this journey…

It’s time you started to see that without you how little would be done, let alone what would happen if you were to become ill… Oh, that’s right there is no time for that as you have to keep going as no one else can help… Mmm have you ever thought that eventually your body will begin to crumble from the overwhelm, stress, fatigue, guilt, sadness, resentment, anxiety, frustration and more taking you into the darkness.  A place that is often hard to move beyond.  We become consumed by all the unhealthy emotions that surround us daily from the circumstances, situations and events we have endured, not only from discovering our child has Autism but from our past as well… Yes, all of this comes together leading us on a path that empowers our ego…

This path will have value in time as it will help you to define what you do and don’t want in your life, but until then you need to know how you can move beyond this by building yourself up and nurturing you from deep within. We need to fill our inner bucket with an abundance of healthy emotions like relaxation, confidence, peace, happiness, love, faith and honour to name a few. Emotions that all have value and when they are in abundance will always been the ones to be hold your intuition accountable in guiding you to do what’s best for you… It will take you on the most amazing journey where you will see the value in all emotions that are experienced and will understand that we cannot always control all that happens in our environment…

Director of own show

After all each and everyone of us are human and our past is what has created how future and at any given time we do have the choice to change the direction we are heading to ensure that we are going to become the best version of us that we can be while nurturing our family. The choice is yours and no one elses… It is up to you to who you wish to be the director or your show and my question to you is are you or your children in control ?

If it’s your children when is it going to be the right time for you to take the reigns to embrace a life that you are entitled to enjoy too ? I hope it’s not going to be when its too late for you and your family to gain from all that you have to share from within for everyone to gain from, as this would be a waste of such value that needs to be shared in all of our communities. We all need to rise high and allow ourselves to be free as butterfly. Spread your wings and fly beyond your comfort zone to see what dreams you can achieve…

And do it now, as you are Number One in your household
and don’t let anyone else to you otherwise…

Now for those of you who find this is an obstacle and are wanting to take action now to transform your world then now is the time to connect with me to find out what I am offering to assist you to achieve this on your journey. Simply join our Facebook Group Autism Living Life On The Spectrum and message me with the phrase ‘Nurture Me Daily’ and I will send you further details. Now don’t hesitate as you will miss out as I have limited places available for this special offer. I look forward to connecting with you soon…