What if we have it all wrong ?

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What if we are the ones that are meant to learn how to change the way we are living, rather than teaching our ASD children to change to our way of living ?

What if it’s all about removing the layers that we have created for protection to reveal the real person we are from deep within ?

What if these children are here to teach us our real value by being a unique individual ?

What if this is evolution at its best only we have to pass the test…

I am a strong believer that we are chosen by our children for many reasons that I will share another day and as most people would agree we are all born with a purpose while we are here on earth.  The only difference is that we all have different obstacles to overcome to be able to see the opportunities that are on the horizon…  We need to discover the path we will take and how far we will travel to reach our final destination, dream, goal or purpose in life so we can live the life we were created to live…

What if our children are here for us to gain an understanding of how our past impacts our future, if we do not let go…  What if the processes we go through are actually for us to discover what we need to do to change our life so we can move forward each day without the baggage that we no longer require…

Knowing all children on the spectrum have varying traits they all still have some similarities.  They often find it difficult to communicate their needs, which can lead to frustration and dependence on others.  They often won’t step out of their zone for fear of the unknown.  Deep within when we observe, you can see the desire to inspire by showing what they can achieve and share…  They may find they don’t fit in or cannot relate to their peers, which leads to isolation and separation from reality over the years… Ultimately the way they present is often not who they are as when you look beyond the situation you will see a greater potential that exists within every one of these beautiful children…

Now are you starting to see where I am heading… Do you relate to some of this or maybe know people that this relates too… As I know I sure do…  When I look at the way we deal with our day to day life and this journey, we are faced with a lot of the issues our children are faced with too… So, why is it that we do not embrace this journey as an opportunity rather than living with fear and seeing everything as an obstacle when it appears…

I feel the reason for this is that it means having to face reality and our own personal fears… We would need to let go of our self-sabotage and listening to our ego. It would mean dealing with emotions that have built up over the years. It would mean acknowledging situations that we had buried and letting go of the unhealthy emotions that exist within to welcome the healthy emotions that we were given at birth…  It would mean exposing our true identity that has been hidden behind closed doors for all these years, for people to really understand why the layers were there and that deep down there is a beautiful soul that wants to be loved and honoured for who they are…

By letting go of all this struggle, as that’s what we often create, we can discover the direction we are meant to take and how we can relate to our ASD cherubs.  By doing this we can also discover there is more opportunities for growth than we ever imagined as it changes our perception on everything… Yes, that is right we are the ones that need to make the changes too and I guarantee that if you choose one of your quirks that you have and try to change it you will discover what you are asking of these children…